I have noticed that my mother’s generation believed in silence. Today’s generation share too much information via social media. It would be wonderful if we were all more forthcoming about reporting elder abuse.

It is estimated that 84% of elder abuse incidents go unreported. Think about it. Eighty-four percent of incidents go unreported. Many view it as a family matter or the classic, “it’s none of my business.” I have news for you. It is all of our business.

Elder abuse is costing taxpayers billions of dollars. In 2012, $2.9 billion was the estimated loss of the elderly as a result of financial fraud.

The reality is that many know of incidents of the mistreatment of the elderly and refuse to report it. I find it irritating when those who witnessed incidents relay details of the incidents after it is too late.

Families keep quiet about it but become proactive when it relates to loss of an inheritance. I can tell you firsthand that the authorities will not invest time in investigating a claim of financial exploitation after the senior has passed. It requires a lot of time investigating and many of the law enforcement officers are not trained in elder abuse investigation, particularly elder financial abuse.The result of not taking action has resulted in loss of homes, cars, and money. A detective serving in the elder abuse unit in Delaware County, Pennsylvania said that it makes his job difficult trying to convince his superiors to pursue a case when the victim is deceased. For a detective who cares, this is frustrating.

There are also social consequences as well. The message that is sent to the younger generation is one that allows tolerance of the mistreatment of the elderly. This should strike fear in the baby boomers who are raising a generation that many feel are probably the most disrespectful, irresponsible and feel a great sense of entitlement.

There are also physical consequences as well. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), “for older people, the consequences of abuse can be especially serious because their bones are more brittle and convalescence takes them longer. Even a relatively minor injury can cause serious and permanent damage.”

As I always mention, please report all incidents to the proper authorities. You can also find information on the National Center on Elder Abuse’s website at

Please feel free to leave your questions or comments.



My goal is to provide information about the growing health issue of elder abuse, not just in the United States and Canada but around the globe. It is important for all of us to understand that this is a global concern.

Australia is facing major concerns in regards to the treatment of the elderly. Elder abuse has increased significantly in the continent (even though many consider Australia a country).  It is estimated that 6% of its population is elderly. It is believed that there are approximately 100,000 unreported cases of elder abuse throughout Australia per year. Ian Yates from COTA (Council on the Aging) in Australia is working to help strengthen laws against elder abuse.

There are no mandatory reporting requirements in any State or Territory throughout Australia for elder abuse that is occurring in the community setting. Experts feel that Australia is 30 years behind in research and policy development. There are no special statutes to cover neglect, mistreatment, or psychological abuse in any State or Territory. It is shocking to discover that elder abuse is not taught in the law school curriculum. Elder abuse is not a specialty area of law with most elder lawyers dealing with wills and estate matters.

Ian Yates in an interview said that “probably the most common is financial, because there’s a strong incentive for people to undertake financial abuse; it’s theft for their own purposes. But, obviously that’s accompanied by emotional abuse, psychological abuse and, unfortunately, physical abuse.”

By 2025, it is estimated that elder abuse will be costing the health system over $350 million dollars per year. In residential settings, 75% of the residents in residential care facilities do not receive regular visits by relatives, are visited infrequently or not at all. This explains why these residents are not well represented in complaints.

Elder abuse cases are extremely difficult to prosecute in court due to lack of specific elder abuse laws.

There seems to be a recurring theme of federal governments acquiescing to state and local governments to address elder abuse concerns. It is fortunate for the elderly that there are organizations whose mission is to address elder abuse in the United States, Canada and Australia.

As I always mention, please report all incidents to the proper authorities. You can also find information on the National Center on Elder Abuse’s website at

Please feel free to leave your questions or comments.


Usually when we see images of elder abuse, we are shown pictures of older women. Sad to say, many forget that men as well as women are affected by this growing health issue. In fact, abuse of older men is under-recognized.  Gender stereotyping and biases do not encourage men to admit that they are victims of elder abuse.

I want to acknowledge Canada, who recognized that images of older men were underrepresented in elder abuse awareness campaigns and have used more images of older men to help the public understand that men are also victims of elder abuse.

This fact needs to be seriously examined when you consider that most men have more financial resources than their female counterparts. This means that older men are targets for financial exploitation. In terms of gender biases, society is more tolerant of an older man having a younger girlfriend more so than an older woman having a younger boyfriend. Society labels younger women dating older men for financial gain as “gold diggers” rather than calling it what it truly is, financial exploitation of the elderly.  he term gold digger diminishes the fact that this is a crime.

The back story behind many of these cases is that older men rely on these women as caregivers and companionship. Many of these relationship are also sexual. Studies have shown that older adults still have strong emotional and sexual needs. Many older men, who are under the assumption that the relationship (in those cases that involve opportunistic women) is mutually beneficial. The reality is that they are opening themselves up for financial ruin.

Older gay men have experienced being exploited and financially ruin by younger men who are actually hustlers. Hustlers seek out these men, who many times are financially secure, because they may not have families and are longing for companionship.

I must add that there are many cases where family members of older gay men, who ostracized them, “re-emerge” under the guise of a reunion.

I have to go on record to say that not all relationships between older adults and younger adults are about monetary gain, but my statements are pertaining to those who are exploiters.

As I always mention, please report all incidents to the proper authorities. You can also find information on the National Center on Elder Abuse’s website at

Please feel free to leave your questions or comments.


The media has had more impact on how we learn about current events, gossip and news than ever before. Mass media play a critical role in shaping public opinion and public policy formation for various social issues, according to a study done in 2007. Many of us have stopped buying newspapers as a result of the ability to read about various topics on the internet. This mode of communication  and information has proven to be effective and relevant.

Many academics has researched how important a role the media can play in educating society about the growing issue of elder abuse. There have not been any national coverage on the major networks, either as a news report or as a subject matter on a television weekly magazine show.

According to a study by Mastin, Choi, Barboza and Pope (2007), when elder abuse is reported in newspapers, most coverage is often focused on incidents in long-term care settings. This is sad considering that most incidents occur in domestic settings. I must say that the internet news coverage does report elder abuse incidents in domestic settings. Unfortunately, everyone does not research or look for these reports when surfing the internet.

Another finding these scholars observed was that elder abuse has received attention in both social science and media venues. Elder abuse is a major health concern that needs to be approached from that perspective. This health problem has costs the federal, state and local governments billions of dollars. Elder abuse professionals have made strides to use the media to get the message out there.

As I always mention, please report all incidents to the proper authorities. You can also find information on the National Center on Elder Abuse’s website at

Please feel free to leave your questions or comment.

Mastin, T., Choi, J., Barboza, G. and Pope, L. (2007). Newspapers’ framing of elder abuse: It’s not a family affair. Journalism & Mass Communication Quarterly, December 2007, vol. 84, no. 4 777- 794